This year, there is a lot to be thankful for.
Mostly, for me, it's time.
In time, the nation has learned from it's mistakes and learned to disregard color when considering our political future. In time, we went from only white males being allowed to vote, to voting in a black president. That is progress. Now I hope that with a little more time, we'll be able to stop discriminating based on sexuality because that just seems like a step backwards in time.
I was graced with an abundance of time the past 4 years with my father and although he's not here anymore, I realize now, more than ever, how much that time meant. I had the time to tell him everything I wanted to say, no regrets. I had time to make some great memories and to eventually say goodbye. I wish I had a little more time with him, but I guess we can't be greedy here, either.
The biggest difference in my work life now than when I was banking is definitely time. I have time to work out every day. I have time to eat 3 square meals. I have time to wind down with my roommates in the evening. I should make a little more time for personal things, but I'm still just happy to have the extra time on my plate from a great job at a great company. After much thought on my trip to Europe, I will not be leaving my job (at least not in the near future).
Speaking of my trip, I am grateful for the time that I'm given to get away when I need to. Sometimes life gets a little overwhelming and you just need to get away from it all. My job, my manager, and my team are all supportive and I have so many opportunities. This past month, I have gotten much needed time to step away from the CA bubble and really evaluate some situations and some people. Sometimes you just need that to cleanse your mind and heart.
Obviously I'm grateful for the time I get to spend with all of my friends. They mean the world to me. They have been my pillars of strength throughout my life and without them, I really would not have gotten to where I am now. I know that in time, many of us grow apart, but that trial of time is also amazing for those times when you meet again after a long hiatus, and even then, it still feels comfortable.
And this Thanksgiving, I'm incredibly grateful for the chance to spend quality time with my family. My mom, brother, cousins, uncle and aunt... they are amazing. To think what used to be annual visits had turned into bi-annual visits... and then got even sparser makes it really nice to just get to see each other. I think we've all learned in the past 2 years that the time we have together is limited, and that time is so priceless... I'm incredibly thankful for it.
Time is one of those things that just passes you by, it never stops and in the end you barely realize how much of it you've had. I know it's impossible to truly make the most of every minute, to live every day like it's your last because although each day may be your last, chances are, it's not. So rather then quote a fortune cookie about seizing the day and making every breath count... I'm just going to say, spend your time wisely. You will never be able to buy any of it back. You can't get a loan for it. You won't get any interest if you invest it. You only have so much time so don't waste it doing things that are meaningless.
Happy Thanksgiving Everyone